GOOD GIRLS TALK ABOUT SEX
A podcast featuring deep conversations with everyday women* about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.
* Gender is complicated. Specifically, the show features people who were brought up as little girls plus trans women.
Welcome, friend!
If you’ve found your way here, I’m guessing you have some questions – about your body and your desires. Maybe you’re carrying around some shame or confusion about sex, and you’re wondering: Is it just me?
It’s not just you.
That’s exactly why I created Good Girls Talk About Sex – so I could stop asking “Am I the only one who didn’t get the memo?”
For years, I believed I was broken—too much, not enough, doing it wrong, or not doing it at all. I spent decades in silence, repressing my desires and second-guessing myself. Once I finally started talking to other women about their experiences, everything changed. I realized: I wasn’t alone. Not even close! And neither are you.
This podcast is a home for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, relationships, shame, curiosity, and healing. Many of the guests had never told their stories out loud before—so what you’ll hear is raw, tender, and deeply human.
I’ve curated some episode collections (below) for different interests. Listen to what speaks to you. Skip what doesn’t. Go at your own pace.
While Good Girls Talk About Sex concluded in 2024, the full archive remains here for you to explore. And the work continues! You can now find me:
YouTube where I share new videos about intimacy, healing, and communication
Substack for deeper reflections and community conversations
Coaching if you’re ready for direct support in reclaiming your voice and desires
Welcome home.
Curated Episode Lists
Coaching Sessions
- Am I Queer? – Coaching Caitlin
- I Wish Men Would Slow Down – Coaching Maria
- Mismatched Libido – Coaching Cindy
- Exploring BDSM – Coaching Chris & Caitlin
- I’m a Hot Mess – Coaching Jen
- I Have Panic Attacks During Oral Sex – Coaching Savy
- Find the Red Flags! – Coaching Sophilia
- The Widow’s Guide to Dead Bastards – Coaching Jessica Waite
Host Leah Carey
In a world full of confusing and contradictory messages about intimacy and relationships, I help sex make sense. Drawing on my own healing journey from fear and repression, I specialize in working with people who grew up in high-control environments—like Purity Culture, narcissistic abuse, cults, or other high-demand systems. No matter your background, I support my clients in unlearning stigmas and unhealthy patterns around intimacy and communication.
The Show
My goal with the podcast is to reflect the racial and gender diversity of the United States as closely as possible. These numbers reflect the interviews I have conducted thus far (including interviews that have been recorded and are scheduled to air, but not including interviews that have been recorded and will not air.)
Purity Culture / Religious Indoctrination
- My Vagina Was Dry as a Bone – Gabby (Purity Culture)
- I Was Kissing a Vagina – Olivia (Evangelical Christianity)
- Sex With Women Is 10/10, Highly Recommend – Tori (Purity Culture)
- I Had Anxiety About Touching Myself – Chandra (7th Day Adventist)
- Dating While Pregnant – Tammy (Judaism)
- I Lied About Orgasms Every Time – Brianna (Part 1 | Part 2) (Baptist)
- Masturbation Was More Sinful Than Sex – Shelly (Mormon)
- The Worse I Felt, the More Sex I Had – Maya (Muslim)
- I Settled for Someone Who Wasn’t the Biggest Jerk – Hope (Sunni Muslim)
Sex and Body Image
- I Feel Like My Belly’s Too Big – Jane
- I Have Panic Attacks During Oral Sex – Coaching Savy
- Why Would Someone Be Attracted to Me? – Sarah and Stefanie
- Bad Self-Esteem but a Great Body – Danielle
- He Brought Handcuffs & Blindfold on Our 1st Date – Rachel
- Thick Thighs Save Lives – Leah
- I Haven’t Told My Husband My Fetishes – Vin
Non-Monogamy
- Use Your Teeth on My Nipples – Heidi
- I Imagined Group Sex While Masturbating – Michelle
- I Had Sex at 13 So I Wouldn’t Lose Him – Yami
- My Vagina Was Dry as a Bone – Gabby
- Sex With Women Is 10/10, Highly Recommend – Tori
- Sex Was a Marital Duty – Charlotte
- I Don’t Equate Sex and Love – Gretchen
- Sex Scenes in Movies Turn Me On – Yaz
- I Was a Really Horny Kid – Carla
Compilations
- What’s Your Favorite Kind of Touch?
- What Are Your Hard Red Lines?
- Do You Worry About Your Smell or Taste?
- Do You Enjoy Receiving Oral Sex?
- Do You Swallow?
- Do You Enjoy Giving Blow Jobs?
- Hair Down There or Are You Bare?
- Do You Prefer Clit Stimulation or Penetration?
- How Many People Have You Had Sex With?
- Do You Have Sex During Your Period?
BDSM / Kink
- I Like to Be Choked and Have My Hair Pulled – Candi
- When We Started to Explore Kink – Betsy
- I Want Be Pushed Against the Wall – Ar Blia
- I Like a Little Pain – Joy
- I Feel Like My Belly’s Too Big – Jane
- He Brought Handcuffs & Blindfold on Our 1st Date – Rachel
- I trained to be a dominatrix – Rain Dove
- Exploring Anal Play – Julia
Sex With Chronic Illness and/or Disability
Sex While Aging
- I Like Foreplay, Not Penetration – Paulette
- I Resented That My Body Was Attractive to Men – Lois
- Having the Best Sex of My Life at 63 – Debbie
- Making Friends With Sex in Menopause – Sophia
- I Had No Idea What a Vagina Looked Like – Mel
- Is It Too Late to Get What I Want? – Jo
- My Husband Was Offended by My Dildo – Sharon
