Sex on my period feels better – Monica
When a dancer goes from embodying the feminine ideal to challenging it, beauty and gender standards are thrown into beautiful disarray.
My throat isn’t a virgin but my kitty is – Kyndra
What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires.
I kiss girls when I’m drunk – Mia
When culture tells you that women are sexy, but the church says same-sex attraction isn’t allowed, you might try to screw yourself straight. Mia shares how she went from stealing liquid courage-fueled girl-kisses to trying to prove herself straight to building lasting love with one of those kissed girls.
I was kissing a vagina – Olivia
Growing up in a conservative church, some kids don’t even know being gay is an option.
I like getting my butt slapped – Samara and Caleb STARS talk
Samara and Caleb have the STARS talk. After 10 months of serious dating, they still uncover several things that surprise them and will help them up-level their sex life.
I was the ‘other woman’ – Mia
While a stutter may seem like an impediment to clear communication, Mia says it helped her identify a perfect partner. She talks about how an early experience of being “the other woman” continues to affect her feelings about relationships. Then, she and Leah discuss how to navigate changing bodies, waning attraction, and mismatched libidos.
Fingering and blow jobs were a sin – Hannah
Purity ring, wedding ring … cock ring?! After many conversations with people who have religious trauma around sexuality, it’s a pleasure to finally interview someone who grew up in conservative Christianity and has a healthy relationship with sex.
Am I asexual if I still want to kiss people? – Alice
Is it normal to want to date without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?
Exploring anal play – Julia
How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.
I want be pushed against the wall – Ar Blia
Episode 100! Ar Blia has been untangling early experiences of trauma, cultural beliefs, and confusing desires so she can explore her own pleasure.
