I trained to be a dominatrix – Rain Dove
Rain Dove is a gender-bending model who walks runways for designers of both masculine- and feminine-coded clothing. Rain challenges societal gender and sexuality norms.
ADHD and your orgasm – Catieosaurus
Cate talks about using kink as therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Also: the unseen effects ADHD can have on your sex life.
My vagina was dry as a bone – Gabby
What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex?
The Evangelical Church Stunted My Sexuality – Brenda Marie Davies
Brenda grew up in a “sex silent” household and transitioned right into purity culture. For a naturally highly sexual person, this spelled dysfunction and disaster.
Sex with women is 10/10, highly recommend – Tori
Tori grew up in purity culture, learning what she didn’t want: a life with more shame than sex, and strict gender roles.
Dating while pregnant – Tammy
Tammy shares how American Jewish culture shaped her expectations and led her into situations that were unhealthy and even dangerous.
Sex and Cerebral Palsy – Karin
Karin lives with cerebral palsy. She talks about learning to appreciate her body and seeing herself as worthy of pleasure.
Not saying ‘no’ doesn’t mean ‘yes’ – Danielle
Danielle’s earliest sexual experiences were non-consensual and has impacted her in implicit, explicit, and confusing ways.
I like to get tied up – Natalie
Natalie talks about how disordered eating behaviors have affected her experience of sex and her body. She also traded sex for lodging when she didn’t have steady housing.
I settled for someone who wasn’t the biggest jerk – Hope
Hope is trapped in a sexually repressive, emotionally abusive marriage shaped by the patriarchal traditions and relationship culture of her country of origin.
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