I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa (update)

Leah shares the health issues she’s been dealing with, and why they have brought up extensive flashbacks to her mother’s cancer journey. 

I kissed John Travolta – Tori

Why do confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers?

Use your teeth on my nipples – Heidi

Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi found that making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend required another friend could provide more consistent and fulfilling sex.

I was a really horny kid – Carla

A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.

Opening my relationship made it even better – Leah

Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship.

What if “The One” isn’t enough? – Michelle

What happens when you discover the reason you’ve never been interested in sex is that you’ve been having the wrong kind of sex for your body? And that the mismatch at the root of your loving-but-sexless marriage is that your spouse doesn’t want that kind of sex?

You do you, but you should also be doing me! – Liz

What happens when a partner is so intent on self-pleasure that they ignore our need to be pleasured as well?

Water sports and incest porn – Joy

Joy talks about taboo territory like incest porn, being HSV-2 positive, and trying out “water sports.”

Pain and pleasure cum together – Caz

Caz is a non-binary disability advocate kink-loving trauma survivor who left live sex shows for the dating apps.

I was afraid he would kill me – Gina

Gina had a history of acting out and questionable marriages. She is realizing she was groomed to be this way as a child, and it’s a trauma response to early assaults.