Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal.
Improve your sex life with the STARS talk
STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex. Dr. Evelin Dacker developed the STARS method […]
I tried to pee standing up – Lachlan
Lachlan was born with a vagina. His is the story of how a boy learned to be a girl, then learned to be invisible, then a lesbian, before learning that he could just be who he was all along, except that it’s still … complicated.
What’s your favorite kind of touch?
What kind of touch do you enjoy? Have you thought about the ways, and places? Touch is a many-splendored thing.
I don’t equate sex and love – Gretchen
Gretchen had limited sexual experience prior to age 40 because she believed she was ugly and broken. Finally the pain of isolation led her to seek sexual healing with a tantric practitioner.
What are your hard red lines?
Even people who think they’re completely open sexually have hard red lines. This week Leah digs into discerning what your absolute no’s are and how to share them with your partner(s).
Sex, mattresses and wheelchairs – Candi
Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares what it’s like to date and to have sex with a disability, as well as loving rough sex.
Letting go of shame
After having a baby, a mom is feeling alone in the process of re-learning her body. Leah explains why it’s more than okay to seek support, and how that can generate its own kind of healing.
I felt like I had to sleep with him – Yami
Yami opens up about a variety of common though not-commonly-talked-about subjects: sexual assault by a family member, and navigating polyamory.
Do you worry about your smell or taste?
Do you worry about how you smell or taste? A chorus of women answer. Also: learning to pause for a breath during sex.