All Episodes

I feel better when I’m naked – This Is Not About Your Body
In a special crossover episode, Leah talks with Jessi Kneeland on the “This Is Not About Your Body” podcast about how body image and sexuality intersect; body image in partnership; advocating for your own needs; and much more.

I like to be choked and have my hair pulled – Candi
Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares how it progressed and how it changed her physical capabilities over her lifetime, and what it’s like to date and to have sex with a visible disability. She also opens up about loving rough sex and BDSM, despite what others might perceive as fragility.

I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa (update)
Leah shares the health issues she’s been dealing with, and why they have brought up extensive flashbacks to her mother’s cancer journey.

I imagined group sex while masturbating – Michelle
Michelle wanted multiple partners and group sex even while surfing through old-school hetero-normative porn on the family computer.

Making friends with sex in menopause – Sophia
Sex is complicated when you grow up Catholic and learn that kissing your best friend feels like heaven but will send you straight to hell. Sophia explored her feelings initially but then shut down once she got married. When the sheer physicality of menopause forced her to re-inhabit her body, she embraced a spiritual path towards sexual reawakening.

I wanted to be a porn star when I was 13 – Sinn
When you love being naked, feeling sexy, giving and receiving pleasure, and you’re happily married, you may be…a porn star! Sinn Sage takes us into the real world of sex work.

I kissed John Travolta – Tori
Why do confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers?

I want to get railed by a man – Kelly
Since beginning her transition to become a transgender woman recently, Kelly has discovered that she is interested in people of all genders. She discusses how hormone therapy has changed her body, her mind, and her orgasms.

Use your teeth on my nipples – Heidi
Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi found that making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend required another friend could provide more consistent and fulfilling sex.

I was a really horny kid – Carla
A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.