All Episodes

I kissed John Travolta – Tori
Why do confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers?

I want to get railed by a man – Kelly
Since beginning her transition to become a transgender woman recently, Kelly has discovered that she is interested in people of all genders. She discusses how hormone therapy has changed her body, her mind, and her orgasms.

Use your teeth on my nipples – Heidi
Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi found that making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend required another friend could provide more consistent and fulfilling sex.

I was a really horny kid – Carla
A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.

Opening my relationship made it even better – Leah
Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship.

Sex on my period feels better – Monica
When a dancer goes from embodying the feminine ideal to challenging it, beauty and gender standards are thrown into beautiful disarray.

Herpes isn’t as stigmatized in Europe – Deidre
Deidre has endured a lifetime of sexual assault, complicated by undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder

My throat isn’t a virgin but my kitty is – Kyndra
What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires.

No fucks given – Maya Strom
My health care provider, Maya Strom, talks about sex and vaginal health during peri- and post-menopause.

I loved the double-ended dildo – Stevie
Sex is hard enough to figure out without also having to wrangle with your gender. Stevie was raised as a little girl, but that never quite fit. They’ve covered a lot of ground to find clarity. They’re now happily married, while still exploring what they actually like in their body and who they want to be in their relationship.