All Episodes
ADHD and your orgasm – Catieosaurus
How can kink un-kink you? Cate talks about using kink as therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Also: the unseen effects ADHD can have on your sex life.
You do you, but you should also be doing me! – Liz
What happens when a partner is so intent on self-pleasure that they ignore our need to be pleasured as well?
Am I asexual if I still want to kiss people? – Alice
Is it normal to want to date without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?
Exploring anal play – Julia
How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.
My vagina was dry as a bone – Gabby
What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex?
Water sports and incest porn – Joy
Joy talks about taboo territory like incest porn, being HSV-2 positive, and trying out “water sports.”
The Evangelical Church Stunted My Sexuality – Brenda Marie Davies
Brenda grew up in a “sex silent” household and transitioned right into purity culture. For a naturally highly sexual person, this spelled dysfunction and disaster.
I watched porn on the school bus – Kay
Kay is our youngest guest yet, and she lets us in on how her generation is exploring sex differently because they’re the first with easy access to p*rn. She has dated people of multiple genders, and realized she loves all bodies. Despite her young…
Pain and pleasure cum together – Caz
Caz is a non-binary disability advocate kink-loving trauma survivor who left live sex shows for the dating apps.
Sex with women is 10/10, highly recommend – Tori
Tori grew up in purity culture, learning what she didn’t want: a life with more shame than sex, and strict gender roles.
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