All Episodes

Use your teeth on my nipples – Heidi
Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi found that making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend required another friend could provide more consistent and fulfilling sex.

I was a really horny kid – Carla
A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.

Opening my relationship made it even better – Leah
Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship.

Sex on my period feels better – Monica
When a dancer goes from embodying the feminine ideal to challenging it, beauty and gender standards are thrown into beautiful disarray.

Herpes isn’t as stigmatized in Europe – Deidre
Deidre has endured a lifetime of sexual assault, complicated by undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder

My throat isn’t a virgin but my kitty is – Kyndra
What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires.

No fucks given – Maya Strom
My health care provider, Maya Strom, talks about sex and vaginal health during peri- and post-menopause.

I loved the double-ended dildo – Stevie
Sex is hard enough to figure out without also having to wrangle with your gender. Stevie was raised as a little girl, but that never quite fit. They’ve covered a lot of ground to find clarity. They’re now happily married, while still exploring what they actually like in their body and who they want to be in their relationship.

I kiss girls when I’m drunk – Mia
When culture tells you that women are sexy, but the church says same-sex attraction isn’t allowed, you might try to screw yourself straight. Mia shares how she went from stealing liquid courage-fueled girl-kisses to trying to prove herself straight to building lasting love with one of those kissed girls.

I was kissing a vagina – Olivia
Growing up in a conservative church, some kids don’t even know being gay is an option.