Making friends with sex in menopause – Sophia

Sex is complicated when you grow up Catholic and learn that kissing your best friend feels like heaven but will send you straight to hell. Sophia explored her feelings initially but then shut down once she got married. When the sheer physicality of menopause forced her to re-inhabit her body, she embraced a spiritual path towards sexual reawakening.
I wanted to be a porn star when I was 13 – Sinn

When you love being naked, feeling sexy, giving and receiving pleasure, and you’re happily married, you may be…a porn star! Sinn Sage takes us into the real world of sex work.
I kissed John Travolta – Tori

Why do confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers?
Use your teeth on my nipples – Heidi

Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi found that making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend required another friend could provide more consistent and fulfilling sex.
I was a really horny kid – Carla

A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.
Opening my relationship made it even better – Leah

Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship.
Sex on my period feels better – Monica

When a dancer goes from embodying the feminine ideal to challenging it, beauty and gender standards are thrown into beautiful disarray.
Herpes isn’t as stigmatized in Europe – Deidre

Deidre has endured a lifetime of sexual assault, complicated by undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder
My throat isn’t a virgin but my kitty is – Kyndra

What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires.
I kiss girls when I’m drunk – Mia

When culture tells you that women are sexy, but the church says same-sex attraction isn’t allowed, you might try to screw yourself straight. Mia shares how she went from stealing liquid courage-fueled girl-kisses to trying to prove herself straight to building lasting love with one of those kissed girls.