I loved the double-ended dildo – Stevie

Sex is hard enough to figure out without also having to wrangle with your gender. Stevie was raised as a little girl, but that never quite fit. They’ve covered a lot of ground to find clarity. They’re now happily married, while still exploring what they actually like in their body and who they want to be in their relationship.

I was kissing a vagina – Olivia

Growing up in a conservative church, some kids don’t even know being gay is an option.

Don’t marry someone you haven’t slept with – Heather

Heather grew up assuming she would marry a man and have children. So she did. But sex was never a good experience – until she had sex with a woman.

A throbbing in my nether regions – Michelle

Michelle’s wife is the love of her life, but their physical relationship has always been difficult. Recently Michelle met a man who brought her sexual feelings roaring back to life.

Masturbation was more sinful than sex – Shelly

Shelly grew up in the Mormon church, got married and had seven children as she was expected to do. Several years ago she started questioning her faith and left the church, only to realize that she’s a lesbian.

I’m trans and here’s why it’s awesome – Trystan

Trystan Reese is a transgender man who gave birth to a baby conceived with his husband. While Trystan has been living as a man for the past 15 years, he was raised and socialized as a female for his first 18 years.

Most people don’t assume I’m gay – Jenna

Jenna knew from an early age that she was attracted to women. The sex life she shares with her fiancee is helping Jenna to sort through and release some of the sexual trauma she experienced earlier in her life.