He brought handcuffs & blindfold on our 1st date – Rachel
Talk about coming full circle: when your friends-with-benefits from age 12 comes back around to become your life partner and make your deepest taboo fantasies come true.
You do you, but you should also be doing me! – Liz
What happens when a partner is so intent on self-pleasure that they ignore our need to be pleasured as well?
I watched porn on the school bus – Kay
Kay is our youngest guest yet, and she lets us in on how her generation is exploring sex differently because they’re the first with easy access to p*rn. She has dated people of multiple genders, and realized she loves all bodies. Despite her young…
Sex with women is 10/10, highly recommend – Tori
Tori grew up in purity culture, learning what she didn’t want: a life with more shame than sex, and strict gender roles.
Some sex workers enjoy their work – Jocelyn
Jocelyn is a full-service sex worker who’s seen many aspects of the industry, and who currently specializes in sexual healing and sexual surrogacy.
I felt guilty about feeling pleasure – Cathy
Cathy experienced childhood molestation, which caused her to dissociate from her body and feel huge shame about her body. As she grew older, she also gained weight, which left her feeling like no one would ever want her.
Vibrators changed my life – Jazz
Jazz uses the pronouns “they/them.” The major theme of this conversation is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender.
Secrets are complicated – Sarah
Through her early 20s, Sarah dated much older men. She talks about the pressure and power differentials in those relationships. Today she has physical difficulties with sex and she talks about how she and her husband work around them.
Sex scenes in movies turn me on – Yaz
Yaz describes herself as a fat, gender queer, pansexual, person of color who holds space for those whose voices get lost in the shuffle.
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