I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa

Lisa had no sexual chemistry with her first husband, and she had many affairs. Today she is in a monogamous long-distance relationship, finding lots of ways to keep the sex alive between visits.

Is it too late to get what I want? – Jo

Jo chooses friends-with-benefits in her relationships because she doesn’t want “a man underfoot”. She also deals with the sexual after-effects of having numerous surgeries for birth defects.

People don’t f*ck me, I f*ck them – Shasta

Shasta has been with her husband for 20 years and we talk about the challenges of boredom after a long time together. She is Canadian First Nation/Cree and is working to heal childhood issues as an adult.

I wish my husband would leave me – Aimee

Aimee is in an unhappy marriage with a man whose temper scares her. She is in the early stages of an affair with another man.

I thought I couldn’t orgasm – Martyna

Martyna grew up in Poland and now lives in South Africa. She deals with depression, and she talks today about how that has affected her relationships and sex.

I saw myself through the male gaze – Diana

Diana had a traumatic birth with her older son, which led to a disconnection from her body and her pleasure. She was able to have a vaginal birth with her younger child, which helped reconnect her with her body and sexuality.

When we started to explore kink – Betsy

Betsy is in the process of reclaiming her sexuality with a new partner while exploring her long-suppressed interest in BDSM.

We have sex about once a month – Laina

Laina is the mother of a young child and she struggles with body image. She believes that nobody would want to have sex with her, and that her husband only does it because she’s his only option.

I don’t know if I was ever sexually gratified – Inez

Inez has been through a lot, including a short period as a teenager of being sex trafficked. Today she is married with kids and deals with chronic illness, plus a recent episode that left her not trusting her husband.

Bad self-esteem but a great body – Danielle

Danielle is the mother of three kids, the oldest of whom is now a teenager. Danielle’s sex life with her husband changed dramatically after kids, but not in the way you might expect.