Live storytelling and the dangers of writing about sexuality in today’s world…
Read moreAm I a lesbian?
What does it mean when the person you’re sexually attracted to isn’t the same as the person you want to spend your life with?
Read moreA Game of Sexual Scientist
Any time someone asked “What do you like?” I felt stupid and inadequate. It was embarrassing. Once again, I was convinced of my brokenness.
Read moreTolerating does not lead to pleasure
I tolerated sex I didn’t want so I could get the cuddling I desperately craved. I believed that if I wanted something, I needed to tolerate anything the other person wanted in order to get a small portion of what I wanted.
Read more#Resist – A tiny radical gesture
When sharing our stories until we bleed doesn’t move the needle, what do we do? This weekend I discovered that radical resistance starts at home.
Read moreIs it okay to ask for help?
Is it okay to ask our partners to help us in healing our issues around sex?
Read more#WhyIDidn’tReport – because “nothing” happened
I remember the laughter. I remember wondering if I was going to die. And because I didn’t, there was “nothing” to report.
Read moreThat’s NOT what consent means
How did I get to be 43 years old and not understand what consent means?
Read moreYou mean I CAN SAY THAT?!?!
Sometimes she hears from him several times a day. Other times he falls out of touch completely for days at […]
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