Receiving oral sex isn’t just about a tongue on a clit – it’s about all the emotional and mental conversation happening at the same time.

Bookmark moments:

  • 6:13 – The women answer “Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?”
  • 10:21 – Leah answers. She opens up about the relationship dynamics in which her first experience of receiving oral took place, and how that impacted subsequent relationships.
  • 14:10 – Leah suggests a new technique to her second partner, which works, but he doesn’t stick to it.
  • 16:10 – She shares how she’s working on staying present with the physical sensation when her current partner goes down, and tracing the history of her hindered state of responsiveness to oral sex back to that first partner.
  • 20:24 – Am I Normal? A powerful, independent woman is confused by her desire to be dominated in the bedroom.
  • 23:23 – Leah talks through common fantasies and the reasons why domination can feel so refreshing.
  • 25:20 – Masochism is discussed.
  • 27:00 – Podcast recommendation

Extra Bits

PSA: Hey. Not everybody likes pizza, either.

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