Good Girls Talk About Sex is now a weekly show! Every other week you’ll get these shorter solo episodes where I tell bits of my story and answer YOUR questions about sex and sexuality.

Thanks to Jessi Kneeland for interviewing ME! She is an amazing body image coach and I highly recommend following her on Instagram and signing up for her weekly #TransparentTuesday emails.

Here are some time markers for this episode:

  • 4:57 – Jessi Kneeland interviews Leah
  • 5:42 – Leah’s first memory of sexual pleasure, including a significant kink interest
  • 11:15 – Looking at her father’s adult magazines that she wasn’t prepared to handle as a child
  • 12:55 – Jessi and Leah reminisce about both reading “Clan of the Cave Bear” at ages 10 or 11
  • 16:00 – Leah’s sexual confusion in her early 30s
  • 17:30 – What did Leah learn about what sex was “supposed to” be like as a kid?
  • 19:00 – Leah’s dad’s message to her about getting “fat and ugly”
  • 20:30 – The way Leah conflated sexuality and assault in her head
  • 22:35 – AM I NORMAL? Introduction
  • 24:35 – Listener question – Is it normal to fantasize about my partner cheating on me?
  • 25:00 – Leah’s answer – This is a fetish referred to as being “cuckolded,” and it’s more common than you would think!
  • 27:39 – Ways to indulge the cuckolding fantasy without fully acting it out and having your partner sleep with another person

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Host – Leah Carey (website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)

Music – Nazar Rybak