Find the red flags! – Coaching Sophilia

Why does Sophilia keep ending up in relationships where things don’t feel right, and the entire weight of making it better falls on her?
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In this coaching episode, Sophilia asks: why does she keep ending up in relationships where things don’t feel right, and the entire weight of making it better falls on her?

Leah works with Sophilia to:

  • understand the red flags for this type of relationship,
  • the communication skills that will help screen them out,
  • rethink her own experience of being turned on.

Sophilia is a 39-year-old, cisgender woman. She describes herself as queer, single, and multi-racial with a white mother and Black father. In the past she’s been in monogamous relationships, but currently prefers the idea of being in open relationships. She describes her body as curvy and muscular.

Leah offers valuable insights and tools to help Sophilia and all listeners to screen potential partners.

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In this episode we talk about

  • Toxic relationship history
  • Self-image and sex
  • How childhood parental abuse translates into adult patterns
  • Responsive vs. Spontaneous desire
  • Estrogen and Testosterone turn-on cycles (and the importance of foreplay!)
  • Overcoming sexual expectations
  • Not commenting on people’s bodies

Resources

Tune In To Your Turn Ons: https://courses.leahcarey.com

The Turn-On Cycle: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/turn-on-cycles/

Jessi Kneeland on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessikneeland

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Production credits

Host / Producer / Editor – Leah Carey (email)
Transcripts – Jan Acielo
Music – Nazar Rybak

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