How can kink un-kink you? Cate talks about using kink as therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Also: the unseen effects ADHD can have on your sex life.
What happens when a partner is so intent on self-pleasure that they ignore our need to be pleasured as well?
Is it normal to want to date without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?
How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.