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Do you love them ENOUGH?!?

Here’s a question I’ve been grappling with lately in my relationship: Do I love him ENOUGH to believe he can handle the truth? Or am I “saving his feelings” because I believe he’s not strong enough?

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Turn-ons aren’t just what happens in the bedroom

Those of us who were raised to nurture and take care of the needs of others can have a hard time figuring out what our own desires are, even when others ask. Today we talk about two things to think about if you’re having a hard time identifying your turn-ons.

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Am I a lesbian?

What does it mean when the person you’re sexually attracted to isn’t the same as the person you want to spend your life with?

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Tolerating does not lead to pleasure

I tolerated sex I didn’t want so I could get the cuddling I desperately craved. I believed that if I wanted something, I needed to tolerate anything the other person wanted in order to get a small portion of what I wanted.

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