Mel had trouble being faithful. She has chosen ethical non-monogamy as a way to meet her variety of relational and physical attractions and needs.
Julia and her partner have an open relationship – but they haven’t taken advantage of it yet. This is an amazing conversation for anyone considering opening their relationship.
Jillian has a significant aversion to sex. Because she is actively searching for answers, Leah provides some gentle coaching and exercises.
Voluptuous Leah is a plus-size model and Instagram influencer. We talk about sex in a plus-size body, people who fetishize fat, and finding a partner who appreciates her for who she is rather than the size of her body. In the second half, we talk about how to manage sex in the age of COVID-19.
Brianna grew up in the Baptist church where she learned that sex was sinful. In this first of a two-part episode, Brianna talks about her early relationships, meeting her husband, and how they recently began talking about exploring swinging
Tenisha is a practicing Christian who went through a period of intentional celibacy as an adult. In this conversation she talks about her early conversations in internet chat rooms, needing alcohol in order to have sex, her choice to become celibate at age 23, and the relationship she’s in now
Through her teens and early 20s, Sarah dated MUCH older men. She talks about the pressures she felt and how the power differentials in those relationships worked. She is now married to a man her own age and in the second half of the show we talk extensively about the physical difficulties she has with sex and how she and her husband work around them.
Michelle was attracted to males early in life, but those feelings cooled and she came out as a lesbian. Her wife of 17 years is the love of her life, but their physical relationship has always been difficult. Recently Michelle met a man who brought her sexual feelings roaring back to life, causing her to question her sexuality.
Jo is a 58-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heteroflexible, and in a friends-with-benefits situation. She has physical issues that make sex challenging. Her preferred relationship style is “none” – as in, she doesn’t want a defined romantic relationship. Major themes include navigating sex with physical difficulties, internet dating, and sex after menopause.
Erin is a 34-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as queer, in a new relationship, she isn’t certain of her preferred relationship style. Erin deals with OCD, plus related mental conditions that cause her to pull her hair and pick her skin. Those conditions cause her nervousness when exposing herself with a new partner. Major themes include being queer, OCD, and exploring sex in adulthood.