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I was told I had “such a pretty face” – Jessica

Jessica is one of so many women who have been told, “You have such a pretty face, if you could only lose 50 pounds…”

We are brand-new baby swingers – Brianna (part 2)

Brianna grew up in the Baptist church where she learned that sex was sinful, but she and her husband have recently begun exploring swinging. In part 2 of our conversation, Brianna shares how that exploration began and how their swinging activities have evolved over the last 6 months. We discuss jealousy, various degrees of partner swapping, emotional monogamy, and more!

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Vibrators changed my life – Jazz

Jazz is a gender non-conforming person who uses the pronouns “they” and “theirs”. The major theme of this episode is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!

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A throbbing in my nether regions – Michelle

Michelle was attracted to males early in life, but those feelings cooled and she came out as a lesbian. Her wife of 17 years is the love of her life, but their physical relationship has always been difficult. Recently Michelle met a man who brought her sexual feelings roaring back to life, causing her to question her sexuality.

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Is it too late to get what I want? – Jo

Jo is a 58-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heteroflexible, and in a friends-with-benefits situation. She has physical issues that make sex challenging. Her preferred relationship style is “none” – as in, she doesn’t want a defined romantic relationship. Major themes include navigating sex with physical difficulties, internet dating, and sex after menopause.

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There’s something to be said for having tits – Davina

Davina is a 33-year-old, transgender woman who describes herself as white, Jewish, queer, polyamorous and actively dating. Major themes include discovering and navigating gender identity, and sex as a trans woman.