STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex. Dr. Evelin Dacker developed the STARS method […]
What’s your favorite kind of touch?
What kind of touch do you enjoy? Have you thought about the ways, and places? Touch is a many-splendored thing.
What are your hard red lines?
Even people who think they’re completely open sexually have hard red lines. This week Leah digs into discerning what your absolute no’s are and how to share them with your partner(s).
Sex, mattresses and wheelchairs – Candi
Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares what it’s like to date and to have sex with a disability, as well as loving rough sex.
I felt like I had to sleep with him – Yami
Yami opens up about a variety of common though not-commonly-talked-about subjects: sexual assault by a family member, and navigating polyamory.
Do you worry about your smell or taste?
Do you worry about how you smell or taste? A chorus of women answer. Also: learning to pause for a breath during sex.
When exercise = danger
Leah talks about a consent violation she experienced during medical care last year, and also shares her insights into her own fear around exercising.
Do you enjoy giving blow jobs?
Do you enjoy giving blow jobs? A chorus of women answer. Also: is it possible for a relationship to work when one partner is polyamorous and the other is monogamous?
I had no idea what a vagina looked like – Mel
Mel had trouble being faithful. She has chosen ethical non-monogamy as a way to meet her variety of relational and physical attractions and needs.
Don’t marry someone you haven’t slept with – Heather
Heather grew up assuming she would marry a man and have children. So she did. But sex was never a good experience. Then she had sex with a woman for the first time, and her life was changed forever.