It’s been a year! In this final episode of 2019, we revisit some of our most popular conversations so far.
Aimee is a 37-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, straight, and married. Although Aimee considers herself monogamous, she has recently begun an affair with another man that her husband does not know about. We talk about this extensively in the second half of the episode. Major themes include: infidelity and seeking sex outside the marriage, lack of sexual communication, erectile dysfunction
Martyna is a 29-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, and in a relationship. She grew up in Poland and now lives in South Africa. Major themes in this episode include depression, learning about consent as an adult, and exploring BDSM.
Jane went to Catholic School while she was growing up in Scotland and in her family she learned that certain topics should never be discussed – including sex. Major themes include difficulty in communicating about sex, body image and sex, and exploring BDSM.
Betsy had sex for the first time at age 27, and after a brief period of one-night-stands, married a man whose sexual desires were significantly different than hers. She says her naturally high libido was “beat right out of me.” Today, divorced and reclaiming her sexuality, Betsy is with a new partner and exploring her long-suppressed interest in BDSM.
After being with her partner for almost 30 years, Amy discovered a previously undisclosed mutual interest in a new sexual adventure – dominance and submission. She tells the story of how they discovered this interest and what happened next.