Leah tackles the hierarchy of orgasms—and getting there at all. Women respond to whether they prefer clit or vaginal stimulation, which opens up a penetrating (see what we did there?!) discussion about preferences.
Julia and her partner have an open relationship – but they haven’t taken advantage of it yet. This is an amazing conversation for anyone considering opening their relationship.
Jillian has a significant aversion to sex. Because she is actively searching for answers, Leah provides some gentle coaching and exercises.
Voluptuous Leah is a plus-size model and Instagram influencer. We talk about sex in a plus-size body, people who fetishize fat, and finding a partner who appreciates her for who she is rather than the size of her body. In the second half, we talk about how to manage sex in the age of COVID-19.
Jazz is a gender non-conforming person who uses the pronouns “they” and “theirs”. The major theme of this episode is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!
Through her teens and early 20s, Sarah dated MUCH older men. She talks about the pressures she felt and how the power differentials in those relationships worked. She is now married to a man her own age and in the second half of the show we talk extensively about the physical difficulties she has with sex and how she and her husband work around them.
Michelle was attracted to males early in life, but those feelings cooled and she came out as a lesbian. Her wife of 17 years is the love of her life, but their physical relationship has always been difficult. Recently Michelle met a man who brought her sexual feelings roaring back to life, causing her to question her sexuality.
When I began this podcast, I had the typical fears – primarily, I wasn’t sure it was any good! I’ve been overwhelmed and humbled and so grateful for the responses I’ve gotten back from you, dear friends. I’ve had feedback from people telling me deep, personal stories about changes they’ve made and things they’ve learned as a result of this podcast. Nothing could make me happier! My goal in doing this podcast is to help all of us – myself included! – understand that whatever we enjoy is okay.
Elizabeth has an active sex life with her male partner, which includes pegging. While that is something that might be considered relatively common in some circles, in Elizabeth’s conservative, rural hometown she fears the repercussions of anyone finding out.
Meagan talks frankly about her childhood explorations of sexuality, how she felt culpable for the things that happened to her as a teenager because she looked older than she was, and why she has taken time off from dating and sex as an adult.