I had anxiety about touching myself – Chandra
Chandra grew up in the 7th Day Adventist church, where educational, social, and religious systems neither acknowledges nor teaches that consent exists for women.
I kissed John Travolta – Tori
Why do confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers?
I was a really horny kid – Carla
A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.
My throat isn’t a virgin but my kitty is – Kyndra
What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires.
I was kissing a vagina – Olivia
Growing up in a conservative church, some kids don’t even know being gay is an option.
What if “The One” isn’t enough? – Michelle
What happens when you discover the reason you’ve never been interested in sex is that you’ve been having the wrong kind of sex for your body? And that the mismatch at the root of your loving-but-sexless marriage is that your spouse doesn’t want that kind of sex?
I watched porn on the school bus – Kay
Kay is our youngest guest yet, and she lets us in on how her generation is exploring sex differently because they’re the first with easy access to p*rn. She has dated people of multiple genders, and realized she loves all bodies. Despite her young…
Sex with women is 10/10, highly recommend – Tori
Tori grew up in purity culture, learning what she didn’t want: a life with more shame than sex, and strict gender roles.
Unhappily married – Tee
Tee is unhappily married, and unhappy with her sex life-like so many people. Also like too many, she experiences the lingering impacts of sexual assault.
I like foreplay, not penetration – Paulette
72-year-old Paulette grew up in a conservative time and culture, which has impacted her lifelong ability to experience pleasure.
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