He brought handcuffs & blindfold on our 1st date – Rachel

Talk about coming full circle: when your friends-with-benefits from age 12 comes back around to become your life partner and make your deepest taboo fantasies come true.

I trained to be a dominatrix – Rain Dove

Rain Dove grew up with a birth certificate that listed gender as “F.” For much of their life, they imagined that “F” stood for “Failure” to be properly “Female.” Today Rain is a gender-bending model who walks runways for designers of both masculine- and feminine-coded clothing.

ADHD and your orgasm – Catieosaurus

How can kink un-kink you? Cate talks about using kink as therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Also: the unseen effects ADHD can have on your sex life.

You do you, but you should also be doing me! – Liz

What happens when a partner is so intent on self-pleasure that they ignore our need to be pleasured as well?

Am I asexual if I still want to kiss people? – Alice

Is it normal to want to date without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?

Exploring anal play – Julia

How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.

My vagina was dry as a bone – Gabby

What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex?

Water sports and incest porn – Joy

Joy talks about taboo territory like incest porn, being HSV-2 positive, and trying out “water sports.”

The Evangelical Church Stunted My Sexuality – Brenda Marie Davies

Brenda grew up in a “sex silent” household and transitioned right into purity culture. For a naturally highly sexual person, this spelled dysfunction and disaster.

Pain and pleasure cum together – Caz

Caz is a non-binary disability advocate kink-loving trauma survivor who left live sex shows for the dating apps.