Talk about coming full circle: when your friends-with-benefits from age 12 comes back around to become your life partner and make your deepest taboo fantasies come true.
Rain Dove grew up with a birth certificate that listed gender as “F.” For much of their life, they imagined that “F” stood for “Failure” to be properly “Female.” Today Rain is a gender-bending model who walks runways for designers of both masculine- and feminine-coded clothing.
How can kink un-kink you? Cate talks about using kink as therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Also: the unseen effects ADHD can have on your sex life.
What happens when a partner is so intent on self-pleasure that they ignore our need to be pleasured as well?
Is it normal to want to date without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?
How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.
What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex?
Joy talks about taboo territory like incest porn, being HSV-2 positive, and trying out “water sports.”
Brenda grew up in a “sex silent” household and transitioned right into purity culture. For a naturally highly sexual person, this spelled dysfunction and disaster.
Caz is a non-binary disability advocate kink-loving trauma survivor who left live sex shows for the dating apps.