I used to have sex in mall hallways – Timari
Timari shares her history with abortion. She talks about being raised in the Mormon church, being in an abusive marriage and cheating, and her sex life with her husband.
I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa
Lisa had multiple affairs while married to her first husband. Today she is in a monogamous long-distance relationship, finding ways to keep sex alive between visits.
I’m done keeping men’s secrets – Sarah
Sarah discusses the complexities of dating older men in her early 20s, exploring the dynamics of power and pressure in those relationships.
I ran background checks before every hookup – Jo
Jo was born with birth defects requiring numerous surgeries that have left her with sexual after effects. Today she chooses friends-with-benefits in her relationships.
I didn’t cheat for sex, I cheated for tenderness – Aimee
Aimee is in an unhappy marriage with a man whose temper scares her. She is in the early stages of an affair with another man.
I found my confidence one tattoo at a time – Erin
Erin is a queer woman who deals with OCD, has tattoos that help her love her body, and has always seen herself as the “funny one” not the “pretty one.”
I blamed myself when he couldn’t get hard – Martyna
Martyna grew up in Poland and now lives in South Africa. She deals with depression, and she talks today about how that has affected her relationships and sex.
I had to learn to feel sexy while breastfeeding – Diana
Diana had a traumatic birth with her older son, which led to a disconnection from her body and her pleasure. A vaginal birth with her younger child helped her reconnect.
I used to need orgasm, now I want connection – Davina
Davina, a Jewish, queer, and transgender woman, discusses sex as a trans person and how she likes her genitals to be interacted with, in their current state.
I think my belly’s too big to be attractive – Jane
Jane went to Catholic School in Scotland, and her family never discussed sex. It resulted in challenges with communicating about sex, her body image, and exploring BDSM.
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