I had sex at 13 so I wouldn’t lose him – Yami

After lots of hard experiences as a teen, Yami is now involved with a man who is dedicated to her pleasure. They’ve been exploring swinging, play partners, and polyamory.

I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa (update)

Leah shares the health issues she’s been dealing with, and why they have brought up extensive flashbacks to her mother’s cancer journey. 

I imagined group sex while masturbating – Michelle

Michelle wanted multiple partners and group sex even while surfing through old-school hetero-normative porn on the family computer.

I wanted to be a porn star when I was 13 – Sinn

When you love being naked, feeling sexy, giving and receiving pleasure, and you’re happily married, you may be…a porn star! Sinn Sage takes us into the real world of sex work.

I kissed John Travolta – Tori

Why do confident little girls turn into quiet, ashamed middle schoolers?

Use your teeth on my nipples – Heidi

Sometimes conventional needs have to be met through unconventional means. Heidi found that making a committed relationship work with her partner and best friend required another friend could provide more consistent and fulfilling sex.

I was a really horny kid – Carla

A horny ex-Catholic joins us from the Netherlands to give us the low-down on how living in a liberal country but growing up in an oppressive family gave her all sorts of mixed-up and downright wrong messages.

Opening my relationship made it even better – Leah

Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship.

Herpes isn’t as stigmatized in Europe – Deidre

Deidre has endured a lifetime of sexual assault, complicated by undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder

I loved the double-ended dildo – Stevie

Sex is hard enough to figure out without also having to wrangle with your gender. Stevie was raised as a little girl, but that never quite fit. They’ve covered a lot of ground to find clarity. They’re now happily married, while still exploring what they actually like in their body and who they want to be in their relationship.