I had anxiety about touching myself – Chandra
Chandra grew up in the 7th Day Adventist church, where educational, social, and religious systems neither acknowledges nor teaches that consent exists for women.
I sucked his tongue like a lollipop – Liz
When it came to exploring her sexuality, Liz took her time – while all her friends were gossiping about their boyfriends and hookups as teenagers, Liz knew she wasn’t ready to lose control. As a single woman, she now has sex occasionally while she waits to find love.
I like to be choked and have my hair pulled – Candi
Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares how it progressed and how it changed her physical capabilities over her lifetime, and what it’s like to date and to have sex with a visible disability. She also opens up about loving rough sex and BDSM, despite what others might perceive as fragility.
I want to get railed by a man – Kelly
Since beginning her transition to become a transgender woman recently, Kelly has discovered that she is interested in people of all genders. She discusses how hormone therapy has changed her body, her mind, and her orgasms.
Sex on my period feels better – Monica
When a dancer goes from embodying the feminine ideal to challenging it, beauty and gender standards are thrown into beautiful disarray.
My throat isn’t a virgin but my kitty is – Kyndra
What do you call a virgin who loves getting head? A comedian! Kyndra Crump takes a deep dive into heteroflexibility and gets some re-education about why losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt—especially if you already like the rest of the stuff. She also learns about swingers-club protocols when she opens up about her exhibitionist desires.
I was kissing a vagina – Olivia
Growing up in a conservative church, some kids don’t even know being gay is an option.
Romance and sex aren’t the same thing – Kristen
People typically talk about an absence of sex as something gone wrong, followed by an array of advice to spice up, fix, rekindle, reboot, top down, bottoms up, laugh, cry, and eventually achieve perfect sex. But what if your life feels pretty perfect without it?
Am I asexual if I still want to kiss people? – Alice
Is it normal to want to date without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?
My vagina was dry as a bone – Gabby
What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex?
