Coaching session: Exploring Caitlin’s queerness

Leah shares a coaching session with Caitlin talking about Caitlin’s newly-discovered attraction to women, and how she might begin to explore that in real life.

I tried to pee standing up – Lachlan

Lachlan’s is the story of how a boy learned to be a girl, then learned to be invisible, then a lesbian, before learning he could just be who he was all along, except that it’s still – complicated.

Sex, mattresses and wheelchairs – Candi

Candi lives with Muscular Dystrophy. She shares what it’s like to date and to have sex with a disability, as well as loving rough sex.

Some sex workers enjoy their work – Jocelyn

Jocelyn is a full-service sex worker who’s seen many aspects of the industry, and who currently specializes in sexual healing and sexual surrogacy.

Doing her “wifely duty” – Jade

Jade’s husband never forced her to have sex, but she felt it was her “wifely duty” to satisfy his needs even when she didn’t want to.

I like foreplay, not penetration – Paulette

72-year-old Paulette grew up in a conservative time and culture, which has impacted her lifelong ability to experience pleasure.

I’m so f’ing multi-orgasmic – Stacey

Stacey has had a rich sex life, and now finds happiness, satisfaction, and opportunity for personal growth in open relationships.

I felt guilty about feeling pleasure – Cathy

Cathy experienced childhood molestation, which caused her to dissociate from her body and feel huge shame about her body. As she grew older, she also gained weight, which left her feeling like no one would ever want her.

Vibrators changed my life – Jazz

Jazz uses the pronouns “they/them.” The major theme of this conversation is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender.

I’m the funny one, not the pretty one – Erin

Erin is a queer woman who deals with OCD, has tattoos that help her love her body, and has always seen herself as the “funny one” not the “pretty one.” This is a really fun conversation that you don’t want to miss.