Talk about coming full circle: when your friends-with-benefits from age 12 comes back around to become your life partner and make your deepest taboo fantasies come true.
What happens when you discover the reason you’ve never been interested in sex is that you’ve been having the wrong kind of sex for your body? And that the mismatch at the root of your loving-but-sexless marriage is that your spouse doesn’t want that kind of sex?
How can kink un-kink you? Cate talks about using kink as therapy for chronic pain, emotional overwhelm, and neurodivergent patterns. Also: the unseen effects ADHD can have on your sex life.
What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex?
Caz is a non-binary disability advocate kink-loving trauma survivor who left live sex shows for the dating apps.
Tori grew up in purity culture, learning what she didn’t want: a life with more shame than sex, and strict gender roles.
Christine participates in orgies, bondage, non-monogamy, skilled play partners, and sex-positive parties. She also experiences dissociation and OCD that impact her ability to orgasm.
Lachlan’s is the story of how a boy learned to be a girl, then learned to be invisible, then a lesbian, before learning he could just be who he was all along, except that it’s still – complicated.
Gretchen had limited sexual experience prior to age 40 because she believed she was ugly and broken. Finally the pain of isolation led her to seek sexual healing with a tantric practitioner.
Jocelyn is a full-service sex worker who’s seen many aspects of the industry, and who currently specializes in sexual healing and sexual surrogacy.