In this coaching episode, Lisa talks about learning to stay present when she’s having pleasure. Currently her mind wanders during sex to making grocery lists or worrying that what she’s doing is wrong.
Michelle wanted multiple partners and group sex even while surfing through old-school hetero-normative porn on the family computer.
Sex is complicated when you grow up Catholic and learn that kissing your best friend feels like heaven but will send you straight to hell. Sophia explored her feelings initially but then shut down once she got married. When the sheer physicality of menopause forced her to re-inhabit her body, she embraced a spiritual path towards sexual reawakening.
Leah sits down with her good friend Danielle of the Marriage & Martinis podcast to talk about her own relationship.
Talk about coming full circle: when your friends-with-benefits from age 12 comes back around to become your life partner and make your deepest taboo fantasies come true.
What happens when you discover the reason you’ve never been interested in sex is that you’ve been having the wrong kind of sex for your body? And that the mismatch at the root of your loving-but-sexless marriage is that your spouse doesn’t want that kind of sex?